THE CORPORATE SOMEBODY CATALOGUE…letting go of resentment and restoring oneself
The prospect of letting go of resentment against persons who were unfair to us in the past, can be daunting, yes?
How about if we made it all about positive restoration for ourselves? Human beings, being instinctively self preserving are generally amenable to things that will benefit their well being… natural!
In those moments when our hearts are enmeshed and entangled with hurt, so much that the mind has little space to appear, let alone prevail, forgiveness is deafened by the loudness of pain. Even when we move on to a better space, the sight of those responsible for past discomfort brings back the incident with vivid colour and the heart goes through that dreaded cycle.
I try very hard to learn new things everyday and some of it is very informal through social media. Trending for me right now is learning the art of peace and quiet while remaining relevant and effortlessly influential. Part of the attainment of personal peace is to consider all things affecting our peace for what they are really worth.
After hurting me, is this assailant still pursuing me or has forgotten it ever happened because it was only important in the moment for his/her ill intentions, from which I have recovered? Is it worth my good energy to keep feeling violated? It is probably not and perhaps the only person choosing to keep it where it is,is you! Move it to the left and liberate your soul. Create space for peace and tranquility.
Next time that dinasaur pops up in sight or in your life, they should be hit by your positivity and superior demeanor, not because you intended it, but because this is who you are… restored.
Makes sense? Tell me about it!